Mastery of Emotional Discipline for a Warrior Monk

So you want to be a JeDi master and defeat the dark side? Master yourself before you try to master the universe. When your home, job, social life and hobbies are not constricted with strife; the universe seems to revolve around you instead of it feeling like you are constantly trying to catch up with it, one with the "force", as it were. It would be nice if life always went our way but unfortunately that is not consistently the case.

Matters not what discipline you try to master; if the discipline requires attention management and you have difficulty managing your anger or other stress, this will be an issue to be addressed before you can master your skill. The first person in a fight to lose their temper loses almost every time. Remote viewing mechanics is defined as an "attention management skill", your RV skills will be useless if your concentration is broken from anger or other emotional stress.

Anger and stress management is something we all need to take a look at, it is the monk side of Warrior/Monk. Like Luke Skywalker discovers while training under Yoda, there is a Darth Vader in all of us we must learn to defeat.

Stress management is life essential to attention management. Most of the topics covered below can apply to most types of concentration breaking emotional stress. The cause of the stress could be depression and sadness, even infatuations or obsessions. Any activity that may evoke an emotional response that could cause us to act irrationally and disrupt our concentration will take you off your game. There are things we can all do to keep things flowing in a more positive direction. You may not be able to change what has happened in life, but you can choose how you think about it and how you respond. In the topics below, it is probably safe to substitute the word "anger" with any overpowering emotion that leaves a path of destruction in your life.

Anger is totally normal. It is a reaction to various situations. It is okay to be angry but when this anger becomes intense and frequent, there can be major problems; problems within the family, relationships, work and it can cause health problems. People who unable to manage their anger in a positive way are likely to transfer their anger to other situations such as child and spousal abuse, violent crimes and other types of recklessness. This reckless behavior is something an individual should take into consideration as it is a clue that they may have a problem.

There are all sorts of anger-provoking situations, more anger management information that might be useful in working through anger-related issues. Some people become mad or angry when they are frustrated, when something doesn't work out the way they planned or because of misplaced expectations. This frustration may lead to anger which can then spin off into a whole list of negative consequences.

Irritations provoke anger. Daily incidents such as constant reminders or regular interruptions can cause a person to become irritated. These irritating situations continue to grow and may with some people result in sudden fits of rage. People in a hurry on the freeways are a perfect example of frustration turning to rage. Their frustration gets out of hand becoming habitual and dangerous. This frustration is so common it now has the clinical name of road rage. Depending on the individual this rage can cause a person to resort to different ways of releasing their anger, some of which may be painful to themselves and others.

Combat, torture, verbal and sexual abuse are also situations that may provoke anger. People deal with these disturbing experiences differently but for those who become angry because of the experience, the outcome could be very serious, even violent. Anger management information such as this is imperative to pay attention to, especially in a situation where a person feels threatened.

Being treated unfairly often without having a recourse of action often provokes feelings of anger. Often people who are blamed for things, whether warranted or not, may feel angry and act out because of these feelings. Finding creative ways to provide an outlet for these feelings can often be quite entertaining as well as liberating. There is a comedy movie available at rental stores called "Anger Management" that addresses these issues. The movie makes a fine contribution to anyone's video collection and a good humor outlet to experience when you feel life just hit you unfairly.

Anger management information is available through many sources; books, movies, as well as the Internet. For a person who requires anger management information, the Internet is an excellent source. With many websites dedicated to anger management, it is very proficient in supplying the necessary information required concerning anger, consequences of anger, people affected by anger and anger management information.

Dealing with anger and its repercussions can be very challenging. Unaware of how to handle irritating and stressful situations may be a reason for many fits of anger and rage. Most people, with the exception of young children perhaps, recognize their problem with uncontrollable anger. Although there are many anger management activities which would enable them to better cope with confrontational situations, some people are uneducated regarding these techniques and activities. Helping people in a situation more unfortunate than yours will often help set your priorities straight.

There are many  activities individuals can practice or participate in when attempting to cope with daily feelings of anger and stress. Exercise has been proven to have a positive impact on an individual's mood. Exercise helps an individual to decrease any negative feelings they might be experiencing. An effective anger management activity might be as simple as going for a walk or jog in the park.  Exploring nature at a nearby national forest or even in your own back yard may be most healing as well. Visiting the gym to work out of taking part in their favorite sport may work well for an individual as an anger management activity. Taking a hike or spending a few hours in the beauty of nature would definitely allow a person to clear their head and release tension. Outdoor activities would surely create an environment of serenity.

Activities such as attending a support group, camp or retreat would certainly help people who are experiencing difficulties. Being able to share with people in similar situations might be the key to anger management for some individuals. Sharing would likely provide hope through success stories. In activities such as these, people are forced to deal with their anger issues through various activities group sessions and one on one consults.

Anger management activities are recommended when dealing with children who are coping with anger issues. A child is unlikely to respond well to group sessions and perhaps even become bored with one on one consults. Finding activities which are interesting and even challenging may be a better alternative. Kids enjoy fun and games. Designing activities which are enjoyable yet beneficial would be so much more effective than forcing a child to sit down with an anger management counselor. Worksheets, coloring pages, individual games as well as interactive games would be accepted much better by children than a trip to the psychiatrist. When children are involved, it is essential to approach the problem carefully. Being overbearing will not go over well with kids. When considering anger management activities for kids, it is essential to be mindful that they are only children and the approach is important.

There are many ways a person can cope when they find themselves in stressful and confrontational situations. When considering anger management activities, an individual ought to choose one which they find interesting and enjoyable. Sticking a person in an unfamiliar setting may create feelings of anger which is not the intention of anger management activities. Finding an activity that works should be the key focus. Also try some helpful tips such as remember to breathe deeply, exercise, get more rest, get out in nature, find humor in the situation and play or listen to music.

When an individual is dealing with anger issues, usually their emotions evolve when put in stressful situations. If a difficult incident pops up, often their only way to cope with it is to put up their defensive side. Becoming angry is probably easier than dealing with the circumstances. This is unfortunate since anger doesn't solve anything. Once it subsides, the problem is still there.

It is often comforting and helps us re-orientate our thinking if we spend time with a friend or family member who is understanding and easy to talk with. When an individual becomes angry they are incapable of seeing the other side of the problem. Talking to someone may help them by sharing their side of the story. The friend or family member may be able to help them sort through their issues and make them look at the situation from the other side.

Another great tip is to write down thoughts and feelings during a fit of anger. The angry individual may feel as if nobody understands or cares about their problems. Sharing may only cause extra conflict. Lashing out will get them nowhere. Writing or journaling may help people with anger issues. Without anyone to talk back or object to what they have to say, it may be help to get their feelings off their chest. Using writing as a stress management tip may also help in the future when trying to find the triggers which cause the angry outbursts. Being able to look back over the information written may provide the person with reasons for their anger through reading about similar incidents.

Some people suggest prayer and meditation as personal practices for an individual. Given a chance to pray and be alone with one's thoughts is a good way to release tension and let the pressures of life wash away. Letting go of feelings of anger and negative thoughts would definitely make a positive change in a person's life. Through prayer and meditation a person is able to dig deep into their minds and souls for answers to their problems and comfort for their broken spirits.

Taking a vacation and/or spending some alone is another good stress management tip. Removing oneself from the environment which seems to frustrate and irritate them may be a wise idea. Being able to get away and reflect on their actions may help an individual to look at things differently. Given space and time may be positive for a person with stress issues.

So you wanna be a JeDi? Start with the Darth Vader inside & make your corner of earth a little heaven where you are.

Most of all, let's not forget the stress of our soldiers. Be thoughtful of how you treat soldiers coming home from combat, thank them and be encouraging. Combat stress and military duty can often be very heavy on fatigue. If you are a Veteran or active service person feeling stressed out and need some financial assistance or emotional support, check out the links below.

Veteran's Emotional Crisis Support
VA Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255), which is available around-the-clock, seven days a week.

Army Emergency Relief
AER is the Army's own emergency financial assistance organization and is dedicated to "Helping the Army Take Care of Its Own". AER provides commanders a valuable asset in accomplishing their basic command responsibility for the morale and welfare of soldiers.

Gen. Albert Stubblebine III is the top of the four of the names most often cited as promoters of programs like the "Goat Lab," the "Jedi Warriors," "Grill Flame," "Task Force Delta," and the "First Earth Battalion," have held top posts within the military intelligence and Special Operations commands.

Gen. Albert Stubblebine III was the head of U.S. Army Intelligence, INSCOM (Intelligence and Security Command), from 1981-84, during which time he launched a series of secret projects at Fort Meade, Md., involving remote viewing and other occult practices. General Stubblebine was, perhaps, the U.S. Army's most senior and loudest advocate of the full gamut of New Age warfare.

"Bert" is a graduate of the U.S. Military Academy (West Point, class of 52) who enjoyed a distinguished 32 year career in the U.S. Army. He retired as the Commanding General of the United States Army Intelligence and Security Command (INSCOM). Prior to this assignment he commanded the US Army Electronics Research and Development Command (ERADCOM). During his active duty career he commanded soldiers at every level. After his retirement he served as the VP for Intelligence Systems with BDM, a major defense contractor. He has brought these experiences to leading-edge medical research and development in collaboration with his  wife Rima E. Laibow, M.D.

He is a long-term out-of-the-box thinker who redesigned the U.S. Army's Intelligence Architecture while serving as the Commanding General of the U.S. Army's Intelligence School and Center. This intelligence restructuring earned him his place in the Intelligence Hall of Fame.

Among his other accomplishments, he participated in a special task force which defined the requirements of the U.S. Army for future conflict. Many of the innovations he developed helped the U.S. to conduct the First Gulf War effectively and swiftly with a very low casualty rate.

Having defended his country for 32 years and having then worked for the remainder of his career to build better ways of being and becoming well, Bert is determined not to let the forces which are threatening American's health freedoms prevail. Formerly a warrior for America's military, now he is a warrior for America's health and personal freedom.

 

 

 

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